Ron: He looks a bit peaky, doesn’t he? Fred: Peaky?! What do you expect? George: He fell off a hundred feet! Fred: C’mon, Ron. Let’s walk you up to the astronomy tower - George: And see what you look like. Harry: Probably a right sight better than he normally does.
This is very true, but it’s important to remember that if a woman is feminine, graceful, shaves, diets, wears make up, or does any of these things in the list, it doesn’t make her a slave to patriarchy or any less of a feminist than you.